Tuesday, November 20, 2012
Where are the Others?
I ask God often, "Where are the others?" never dreaming that he was raising up fellow sufferers in my midst and then I realized! "That means they are feeling like I have felt, oh, NO! That's not what I meant!!" I have never felt so torn before about the truths of the cross. Knowing that I desire others to stay the corse to endure to bear up under the cost to continue in the path of affliction, but I don't desire others to suffer or to be abased! I want people to understand what it is to walk along after Christ but I forget that means they must bear a cross, they must become like christ is!
Monday, November 5, 2012
Wanting NORMAL
If you aren't already laughing I hope you will imagine five crazy children in one small apartment with two tired parents and a whole lot of sin and struggles and then feel free to laugh....hard!
You may be thinking like I know the people in the grocery store ALWAYS do, is normal even possible?
Monday, October 8, 2012
Do we Want to Be Happy?
In a recent speech before a group of international researchers, [Ben] Bernanke talked about the difference between happiness -- a subjective and transitory feeling -- and well-being, which is a longer-term measure. He said that keys to finding long-term life satisfaction include "a strong sense of support from belonging to a family or core group and a broader community, a sense of control over one's life, a feeling of confidence or optimism about the future, and an ability to adapt to changing circumstances."
Thursday, September 13, 2012
Some Reasons why I have NOT Arrived...
1)
I am still very selfish- Much of my parenting
still revolves around me. I want things/have expectations that are not rooted
in truth and are only desires that will gratify some felt need of my own. Like
sleeping through the night. I get easily frustrated and annoyed getting woken
up 3 to a gazillion times a night over bad dreams or getting too hot and cannot
wake enough to throw off the blanket. I
get annoyed that I honestly cannot remember the last night I actually slept
through without a disturbance. I am still SOO VERY selfish.
2)
I seek the approval of men- I want people to
think I am a wonderful mom who has everything together! Let’s face it this has
to be the MOST pointless and least useful reality of my fallen nature, but
still it is a sad truth. I want my children to obey, not because it is a
biblical mandate, but because then it makes me look good. I want my children to
be perfectly clean and scrubbed, because then it reflects beautifully on me.
And even if there is no one there to see how wonderful I am, I am more than
willing to show off even just for myself! Pathetic! Trying to make my kids do
things that aren’t really their responsibilities or their issues just because
of my own standards and desires to impress! Wow! Flaming!
3)
I fail every moment of every day- Yup! I am a
humongous failure at parenting! I don’t do the things that I should. I get angry. I
don’t supervise completely all the time. I sin daily and most often against
these little people. I fail every moment of everyday! No matter how hard I try,
no matter how much I do, no matter how many right or wrong answers I give, I
always get it mixed up or something….and basically FAIL!
4)
I am not patient! A sad truth about the reality
of my heart is that I lose my patience far too often. Just yesterday my daughter told me her
attitude was my fault and I answered her “My fault?! MY FAULT? So I TOLD you to
misbehave?! I ASKED for your disobedience” Yeah, I was really patient, loving
and mature! So I really need to work on
that. One of our sons wakes up at the same time every morning no matter what
the evening before looked like and drives me crazy!
Sunday, July 1, 2012
Always Teaching, Always Learning
When we think about our children and ourselves as a unit do we regularly think about how they are always leanring and we are always teaching, something?!
I often think about the things I was "taught" as a child even when I wasn't specifically learning. Did I know my parents accepted me as me, without any extras? Was my performance wrapped up in the ways people related to me? And my other thoughts swirl around in my head when I think about the expectations I place on my children.
I often think about the things I was "taught" as a child even when I wasn't specifically learning. Did I know my parents accepted me as me, without any extras? Was my performance wrapped up in the ways people related to me? And my other thoughts swirl around in my head when I think about the expectations I place on my children.
Wednesday, June 13, 2012
Til Death?
"I think the institute of marriage is a noble thing. I think the idea of a partner for life is incredibly romantic. But now we're living to 100. A hundred years ago people were dying at age 37. Til death do us part was a much different deal."
Tuesday, May 1, 2012
Close Your Eyes
Many people in our culture make love to be based on appearance. "I will only love you if you are lovable" is the montra of this ideology and it is widely held. But this morning while I was getting three of my babes from the childrens rooms after the gathering today I saw a couple of parents with the most beautiful little curly blond-headed boy. The parents, like all parents, were overjoyed to see their boy after hearing the sermon, but this was different! These parents were blind!! They would not see their boy, not today and judging from their condition, not ever. Yet they adored this son of theirs! A son whose eyes they will never inspect, whose curly ringlets will never know the caress of a mothers eyes. And yet my heart was moved deeply by the love on their faces for this child!
Sunday, April 15, 2012
"Liberty" and the American Church
"I wonder if the Americans do not understand us at all because they are people who left Europe so as to be able to live out their faith for themselves in freedom? ie. because they did not stand fast by the last decision in the question of belief? I fancy that they would understand the fugitive better that the one who stays. Hence the American tolerance, or rather indifference in dogmatic questions." --Bonhoeffer
Today, many of us look at our contemporary church and we think the brokenness is a newerish development. We look to the conservative resurgence of the 1970's and 80's and say to ourselves that we have seen the star of truth rise once again from the ashes of modern liberalism. We think that the lack of fire and life that has eroded the effectiveness of our evangelical denoms is because of cultural irrelevancy. But I would submit to you (via some thoughts and conversations the hubs and I have engaged in) that the current state of gospel laxity is really traced back to our roots.
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Sunday, April 1, 2012
Mountain or Valley
I have really been thinking about what many believers call mountain top moments and valley times. I have always heard in spiritual circles that mountain top moments were moments when God's voice was super clear, you felt close to Him, you had a high sense of the nearness of the truth. And conversely a valley was when those things weren't as prevalent; His voice less clear, His leading not as apparent. Somehow I think this is probably a wrong assumption.
Thursday, March 1, 2012
Wednesday, February 1, 2012
Things About Motherhood
Some excerpts from an email sent to a friend in concern to motherhood and dealing with the hardships that job includes.....
Sunday, January 1, 2012
Looking Through the Cross
When I say we need to look through the cross at ourselves and others, what exactly do I mean?
I have said this to several people and I wonder if it is a hard statement to understand because it could be pretty ambiguous.
Lets ask this satement in a question.
What did Christ see when he took to the cross?
Or Why did Christ choose the will of the Father?
Or Why did he say "father forgive them for they know not what they do"?
The main thing I mean when I say "Look at ourselves through the cross" is to see ourselves as Christ sees us. See our utter depravity. Feel it clearly. Know it truly. And recognize it rightly. My husband has often likened what Christ did as if we were going to be come a worm to save the worms. Seems rather pathetic, doesn't it? Ridiculous even! But why else would the KING OF THE UNIVERSE come to our world to become a victim of our gross natures?!
I have said this to several people and I wonder if it is a hard statement to understand because it could be pretty ambiguous.
Lets ask this satement in a question.
What did Christ see when he took to the cross?
Or Why did Christ choose the will of the Father?
Or Why did he say "father forgive them for they know not what they do"?
The main thing I mean when I say "Look at ourselves through the cross" is to see ourselves as Christ sees us. See our utter depravity. Feel it clearly. Know it truly. And recognize it rightly. My husband has often likened what Christ did as if we were going to be come a worm to save the worms. Seems rather pathetic, doesn't it? Ridiculous even! But why else would the KING OF THE UNIVERSE come to our world to become a victim of our gross natures?!
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